Frequently Asked Questions
What if my story and life experiences are different than other women?
Life experience generates story and the intergenerational stories that are being healed at present, have been woven from thousands of years of experiencing patriarchal rule. These stories all share universal archetypal patterns. Birth Your True Self focuses on those archetypal patterns, as they are the key to unravelling the story. Every woman’s story is different and each woman engages with this process in her own unique way, just as you will engage in the way that meets your needs and serves your highest good. The patriarchal conditioning has been focused around getting it right. That is linear thinking and this process is not linear. When working with the Birth Your True Self process, there is no right or wrong way. Engaging in this process is about self-exploration and self-discovery. It involves accepting what is unfolding within you and learning to attune to the higher frequencies to transmute the patterns that no longer serve.
The Birth Your True Self process is a journey of self-empowerment which allows women, in their own time, to gain the confidence and trust in themselves to be able to guide their own healing process, to be the sovereign being they came to be.
Do I have to dredge up my past in this process?
No, dredging up the stories and reliving them activates the emotions that give the story power over the story holder. The Birth Your True Self process is about allowing the unravelling of stories and the healing of the intergenerational wound of separation.
In this transformational process, when the patterns, beliefs and emotions that are generated by the story are identified and transmuted, the story unravels. When the integration is complete, women see the story through a new lens and it no longer has power over them. The wound that generated the story is healed and women are creating their life from a higher frequency.
Is the Birth Your True Self a counselling process?
No, I am not a counsellor, nor do I provide counsel. In my practice, I serve as a teacher/guide/healer. I attune to frequencies of the higher dimensions, and through the Birth Your True Self process, I support my clients to raise their vibration so the patterns, beliefs and emotions that express through them can be transmuted. This allows the story that protects a wound to unravel and the wound to heal. When the integration of the old and the new is complete, women are no longer viewing their past from victim consciousness (separation); instead, they are creating their lives from creation consciousness (wholeness).
What determines the effectiveness of the Birth Your True Self process?
While the process itself is simple, it is only as effective as the vibration in which it is being used allows it to be.
When this process is used in the third dimension—where the frequency of the vibration is very slow—changes will occur little by little and over time, as changes are occurring at the frequency of matter.
If one is supported in the Birth Your True Self process by a guide/healer who is attuned with the frequencies of the higher dimensions, it is possible for you to raise your vibration and experience change more quickly, as it is at the higher frequencies where patterns are transmuted.
How do you see your role in the Birth Your True Self process?
I serve women as a teacher/guide/healer with a clear knowing that my role is to teach women the Birth Your True Self process by guiding them through it, so they can, in their own time, become their own guides. They learn how to attune with the higher frequencies and work with those frequencies to guide their own processes, so they can continue to transmute their patterns, thoughts, beliefs and emotions as they arise. As a woman’s life comes into balance, the story unravels and the intergenerational wound of separation heals. This process is about self-empowerment, where women remember the truth of who they are and how to be the sovereign beings they came to be. How the process unfolds and the time frame in which this happens is unique to each woman.
How do you guide women in the Birth Your True Self process?
I guide my clients from the frequencies of the higher dimensions. I work with my clients in a way that supports them to raise their vibration to receive what serves their highest good. It is my intention to work with women at a frequency that feels right for them, so that they experience the process in their own unique way with the changes occurring at the momentum they allow. They are in the driver’s seat. I am the guide. The frequency they experience and their ability to maintain it, are a couple of the determining factors in the length of time for the changes they seek to occur.
How long would one have to work with you to see results?
We have been conditioned to focus on results, and in our present time, if they don’t happen when and how we want them to, we move on looking elsewhere for that magic bullet that is going to fix everything. We have been conditioned to look outside ourselves for the results we seek. For example, “If I just find the right coach, I will be successful” is a third-dimension mindset.
At the higher dimensions, it is understood that we are the creators of our lives. If we truly desire to change our lives, we need to be aware of the vibrations of the patterns, beliefs, thoughts and emotions that are presently creating what we don’t want. Then, once aware, we take the next step in the process, choosing to create a life that aligns with what we do want.
The Birth Your True Self process is not a quick fix. This is about healing the intergenerational wound of separation, a wound that has been festering for thousands of years. The timing of the changes is dependent on each woman’s level of commitment to herself, willingness to release old stories and trust in her ability to receive and discern guidance.
I have worked with women who feel confident to guide their own process after six sessions, and they then book an occasional session for deeper guidance. I have had women who work with me for two years or more before they feel confident enough to continue the process on their own. In my experience, every woman I work with is unique and her process unfolds in its own time.
How can women have a direct experience with the Birth Your True Self process?
I have created three levels where women can have a direct experience with the Birth Your True Self process.
The first level is encompassed by the ebook I published in 2023: Birth Your True Self: Weaving a Story of Love and Joy. It is a short ebook that offers women the opportunity to ask themselves big life questions. In the process of discerning the answers, women may experience revelations that allow them to see themselves in a different way.
If the ebook resonates, the second level is the companion Birth Your True Self workshop that takes women deeper into the process and teaches them how to work with the process as it applies to their own unique life experiences.
If women choose to go deeper with the Birth Your True Self Process, the third level of experience consists of personal sessions sold individually or in a package. Each personal session is unique to each woman’s individual process. This is the level where the transmutation of patterns can potentially unfold quickly, especially if the women have worked through the first two levels of experience prior to the third.